Welcome to Reimagining Self-Worth and Embracing Emotional Healing
- Kelly Godar
- May 28, 2024
- 3 min read
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As a life coach who's mission is to help empower beautifully brave women navigate life's obstacles through finding their inner strength, self confidence, resilience, and their connection to that of which is greater, I've observed the powerful role that narratives play in shaping our self-perception and our lives. Women especially have so much going on in our busy lives, that many times we get sidetracked when it comes to self-prioritizing our own needs. We often carry stories about our self-worth and fears that can either propel us forward or keep us from reaching our full potential. These narratives are deeply ingrained beliefs that influence how we approach and react to challenges, opportunities, and emotional healing.

Common Narratives for Self-Worth and Embracing Emotional Healing
Many women come to life coaches with a set of similar set of narratives that limit their perception of self-worth::
The Perfectionist Trap: "I must do everything perfectly," or "Does everyone have what they need?" These narratives can set a high bar where our mistakes are not seen as opportunities for growth but personal failures.
Fear of Visibility: "If I show my true self, I will be judged or rejected." This fear keeps many of us women from stepping into our own power, expressing our needs, and asserting our boundaries.
Sacrificial Syndrome: "My needs must always come last." This statement is where self-worth is tied to how much we can give to others, often at the expense of our own health.
Imposter Syndrome: "I am not good enough to be here." This statement is a BIGGIE! Despite our accomplishments, many of us struggle with feeling undeserving of our success, attributing it to luck instead of our hard work and abilities.
The Fear of Committing to Emotional Healing
Committing to emotional healing requires us to confront these scary narratives, which can be a daunting task. Many of us women fear the process of healing because:
It Demands Vulnerability: Facing our innermost fears, failures, and flaws can feel overwhelming and exposes us to emotional risks.
It Challenges the Status Quo: Healing might change how relationships work or how one is perceived, which can be unsettling.
It Requires Time and Effort: As a life coach this is one of the biggest reasons why women can't or won't commit to their personal healing. The journey of healing is not linear. It will involve setbacks and demands persistence, which can be a significant commitment.
Transforming Narratives to Empower Self-Worth
The transformation begins when we re-write these narratives. As we work together in coaching sessions to reimagine self-worth and embrace emotional healing we focus on several key strategies:
Embracing Imperfection: Learning to see mistakes as natural and essential parts of growth helps dismantle the perfectionist trap.
Asserting Worthiness: Exercises in self-affirmation and boundary-setting can bolster the belief that one's needs and desires are valid and important.
Celebrating Achievements: Regularly acknowledging and celebrating achievements can combat imposter syndrome by reinforcing the belief in one's capabilities and efforts.
Prioritizing Self-Care: Shifting the narrative to "I am worthy of care" helps balance the tendency to always put others first.
Connecting to Something Greater
Part of the journey towards greater self-worth and emotional healing involves connecting with something larger than oneself-whether it's a community, a spiritual belief, a personal belief, or a personal mission. This connection can provide a sense of purpose and belonging that supports the healing process.
Conclusion
Committing to our emotional healing isn't just about overcoming fears and changing narratives; it's about opening up to a life that is richer, deeper, and more fulfilling. It's about living your best life, only better. As you begin to let go of old stories and embrace new ones, you'll find that what you once thought was your ceiling becomes your floor, providing a strong foundation for growth, happiness and true fulfillment.
For anyone standing at the beginning of this journey, remember you are not alone, and the path, although challenging is immensely rewarding, so let's walk it together. Please feel free to leave your thoughts and comments!








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